Stop Faking IT empowerment intimacy pleasure reclaiming sexuality sensuality sex coaching woman empowerment Feb 07, 2023

The orgasm gap is cultural, not biological.

What that means is that women’s orgasms aren’t more complicated than men’s, but we were made to believe that they are. 

Let’s Talk About Orgasm:

From textbooks to popular media, novels, erotica, porn and Hollywood, the...

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Our Sex Drive Is Impacted By More Than Hormones conditioning emotions healing intimacy reclaiming sexuality Jan 20, 2023

While hormonal shifts associated with menopause do have an impact on our physiology, it is just one piece of an overall picture. 

Our Sex Drive:

Our sex drive, levels of arousal, experience of pleasure, and access to ecstasy are a complex interplay between physiology, internal connectivity,...

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Will I Get Burned Like My Grandmothers Did? conditioning empowerment feminine leadership healing healing trauma and conditioning reclaiming sexuality woman empowerment Jan 18, 2022

I did my best to stay in the lane. I took classes, learned theories, applied behavioral science, watched the best of the best, and emulated what I saw. 

I taught what I knew and got well deserved pats on the back, that would temporarily make me feel like what I was doing was making a...

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The Energetics Of Feminine Leadership empowerment feminine leadership healing midlife reclaiming sexuality redefining leadership Jan 12, 2022

I used to think of leadership as an intellectual pursuit. We learn how to influence people's behavior, mange change, inspire and motivate. Leadership as an institution exists for most part in the service of doing. As such, it is best suited to men, because it aligns with the masculine...

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Safety. How F_ucking The Pillow Can Set You Free. healing midlife reclaiming sexuality redefining leadership sex coaching sexual empowerment Dec 20, 2021

I’ve been on a personal development journey for the last 30 years. Having grown up in a culture that confused the hell out of me, it was no surprise that I came out feeling like I am broken, and in sore need of fixing.

I was supposed to be a good girl, always polite and giving. Smart,...

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Who Are You In The Midst Of Chaos? empowerment healing midlife reclaiming sexuality redefining leadership sex coaching sexual revolution woman woman empowerment woman leadership Dec 20, 2021

Who Am I?

It is at the same time the most profound and the most banal question that we can ask of ourselves and that we get asked by others. It can be asked from the most superficial level of “who the hell are you?” when you accidentally crash a wrong party at a hotel venue to the...

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